Everyone is buzzing about the Oba of Lagos – Oba Rilwanu Akiolu‘s death threat to Igbos, which he made on Sunday March 5th, when speaking to Igbo leaders in the state.
The reactions from Nigerian at home & abroad has been mostly of disgust that in 2015 such threats can be openly made.
Multimedia personality Toke Makinwa this morning, took to Instagram to give her two cents on the Oba’s hateful statement. While calling out his actions as ignorant, she also draws attention to the fact that many Nigerians are tribalistic.
Read what she had to say after the jump
There is so much to say on this topic, it is heartbreaking but real. Tribalism has been and is still been practiced today. Lagos is home for everyone, our generation knows better too. Let’s not let this come in between us, the OBA’s statement was ignorant but do we really blame him????? We all at some point in our lives have been on the receiving end of acts of tribalism. Let’s take out the tension and be real with each-other. (more below)
Our parents generation practiced tribalism openly and they were not corrected. In some homes befriending people from other tribes was frowned on, marrying from another tribe is still being frowned on today, tribalism even from people of the same tribe is real too. What we need is to educate and not instigate. I had Igbo friends growing up, I was the only Yoruba girl in the midst of Igbo girls. Did they make fun of me?
Sometimes but it wasn’t out of malice. We lived, we loved and we are still very close. I have had a friend’s mum tell me “haaa omo ondo ni e? Mi o mo ooo, a kin ba ondo sore” meaning – I’m from Ondo? She didn’t know…. If she had, she won’t let her daughter befriend me cos they don’t like Ondo people, Ondo and Ijebu don’t mix… I was shocked. She went ahead and said “You Ondo people are wicked”. My friend is from Ijebu ooooo, we are both Yoruba girls and that statement was made by her mum. We are still friends today and her mum got over it. Please educate people around you. Vote who you want, vote your conscience but please stop with the tribalism comments. Our beauty is in our diversity. It is a distraction, don’t fall for it. Let’s all live as one.